Vacation Pool Safety

Dear Dr. Rene,

We are going to the beach this Friday with two other families.  11 kids, ranging in age from 14 to 2 ½.  Megan, my youngest is 2 ½ years old.  The next youngest is 6 and all of the older kids can already swim well.  The house has a pool, and I’m scared to death about it.  Megan is a bit fearless, and my fear is that she will wonder down there and no one will notice.  We obviously plan to watch her closely, but I know that my eyes can’t be on her 24-7.   I know of two people that lost kids right around this age to drowning.  How do I talk to her and emphasize that she is never to go near the pool without one of the adults without scaring her?  I want to scare her a little, but not too much.

Sincerely, Sarah

Dear Sarah,

Part of the difficulty here is at 2 1/2 years old you can teach them about safety, talk and warn them and review but you can’t rely on them to be good at it at all.  I would find a few key phrases, stated in the positive and start saying them now with lots of repetition.  My sentence might be along the lines of “you go to the pool with mommy,” “mommy must go to the pool with you,” and “you must have mommy at the pool.”  When you get to the beach house, go down to the pool together and talk about how she has to have mommy to go to the pool.  You might ask “Do you go alone?” “No” (in a light tone). “Do you go to the pool with a friend?” “No.”  “Who do you go to the pool with?” “Mommy! You only go to the pool with mommy.”  I would review this with her, in a light tone throughout the vacation time.  This does put pressure on you to be available for the pool often but better to narrow it to you rather than say an adult in general which relies more on her for safety.  She may think if there are adults or the 14 year old around the pool that’s enough.

The next thing I would do is lock the gates and doors in and out to the pool.  If a door leads straight from the house into the pool area, I might block it with a dresser.  I would also let all the children know, Megan is ONLY allowed to be at or in the pool with you.  If any of them see her at or in the pool, they should lead her out and come get you.  If you still feel worried, you might ask if they provide or provide your own pool alarm.  Gate alarms starts at $30, pool-wave alarms at $70.  All that said, watch her like a hawk.

I hope this helps!

Sincerely, Dr. Rene

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