Starting at a New School this Fall?

Back to school

Whether your child is starting at a new preschool or elementary school, the first day can be daunting.  There are several things you can do over the summer months to help prepare for the first day.

  • Visit the school’s website –  Explore the website with your child.  Point out pictures of happy children and read about fun yearly activities.  Look for pictures of your child’s teacher or classroom.
  • Play on the school’s playground – If it’s available, playing on the school’s playground can build happy memories during the summer that might carry over to the fall.
  • Plan playdates with future classmates – If you have a class list, start contacting families over the summer to play or meet at the pool.  If no class list, you might ask neighborhood families if they have or know other children starting at the school.  It can be so helpful to see a familiar face on the first day.
  • Attend all back to school nights and visit the classroom opportunities –  This is partly to support your child’s gradual entrance to the new school and partly to be sure you are an informed parent.  Often teachers review school policies and give important information at these events.  The more you know about the school the better.
  • Review the drop-off and pick up policies and have a plan for separation as needed – Share the plan for drop-off and pick-up with your child.  As best you can, be sure they know where to go and what to do.  If your child tends to have separation anxiety, good to know the school’s policy for this as well.  Here is a link to a blog post about separation: https://parentingbydrrene.com/2012/07/23/tips-for-separation-at-the-start-of-the-school-year/.  Here is a link to a 20 minute podcast (#341) I gave on managing separation anxiety: http://www.parentsperspective.org/index.php?s=separation.
  • Re-establish bedtime and mealtime routines – If you’ve lost a sense of routine, good to rebuild this at least several days before school starts.  If children are allowed to stay up late and sleep in through the day before school, getting up and getting ready on time can be that much harder.  If your kids are grazers over the summer months, it can be helpful to getting back to regular meal and snack times as well.
  • Remind them of other positive transitions they’ve made or you’ve made – Remind them how much fun they had when they started at a new camp last summer or when they joined a new soccer team.  Tell upbeat stories about when you started school.
  • Read upbeat children’s storybooks about the start of school –   Upbeat books include DW’s Guide to Preschool by Brown, What to Expect at Preschool by Murkoff,  If You Take a Mouse to School by Numeroff, Kindergarten, Here I Come by Steinberg and Welcome to Kindergarten by Rockwell.
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