>’Playful’ Hitting Question

>Parent Question: How do I teach my 20 month old daughter not to ‘playfully’ hit my face when I’m holding her sometimes? I tell her no hitting and be gentle with mommy but she just finds it funny so I end up putting her down.

Answer: I would say in a firmer voice than usual and with a straight face, “That hurts” and put her down the first time and each time. Don’t wait until the second hit or attempt. Later in the day I would coach how we touch people and practice being gentle. When she does touch nicely, gush a bit. Say “Wow, that was so nice. You touched me in a gentle way!” She is young for much more.
I hope this helps! Dr. Rene

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